Reconnection errors

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I just recently downloaded Mental Omega v2.0a and the RockPatch v1.08SE and was playing an online multiplayer game with my friend who did the same thing.  We got to connect, choose countries (I was Allied-America and he was Soviet-North Korea) and ai's (2 PsiCorps), and start the game.  In game we were doing fine until we got a Reconnection Error.  We tried again, and bam another reconnection error.  We also tried (me-America, him  Soviet-Cuba) and yet another reconnection error.  I read forums and what I've learned is that the game only crashes if 1 of the countries is a Soviet country and the spyplane is used, a centurion is built, and that the RockPatch is incompatible with The First Decade  (I have the originals RA2, Yuri's Revenge CD's my friend has The First Decade).  How true is all these?  Is there any remedies or fixes?  Is there a different patch version that works with TFD?  Or do we have to wait for a new version of the patch?   Thanks to whomever takes time in responding and giving me the answers.